For three days this week I joined a group of over 500 women for the Women’s Rocking Business Conference in Santa Cruz California. A beautiful women name Sage Lavine had a vision to bring women together with the message they are loved, supported and can create amazing businesses. Sage, I thank you for this.
One of the many things that I was reminded of is a message that Spirit has been sending to me for many years now and that is, we are not here to do things alone. This had been a challenge for me much of my life. Throughout my early years I received the same messages many other people have received and that is, it was not safe to reach out to others and ask for help. The message that I was not worthy of the love and support of others. That I could not depend on others and that I would be ridiculed if I did ask someone to be there for me.
Even though I left much of that belief system many years ago as I began to love who I am and to know I, like everyone else is worthy, I kept falling back into the pattern not reaching out to others to share what I was doing or ask for support. Okay, maybe I would reach out a little but, that is all I would do.
Through the three days of the conference I received the message of the importance of having a tribe. This message was reinforced repeatedly. I saw how having a tribe would not only help me but, how by being a part of tribe, I could assist others too. I came back from the conference and began reaching out too many of the women I had just met and to the women I know to bring together a tribe. This tribe is not only my support and family, it is support and family for the other members of the tribe. What a powerful force of life this tribe creates. An energy that surpasses what I can do alone.
If you are standing out on the sidelines feeling as if you must do things alone. That your dreams are not worthy or that you are not worthy, I want to tell you now, that is not true. You are a Divine Being who has come here with a purpose. You are beautiful. You are powerful. You are Amazing. As you realize this, reach out to others so that you may receive and give love and support. Bring your tribe together. This is a gift not only for you, it is also a gift for others.